How to Talk to Your Kid About Boundaries is a practical, age-appropriate guide for helping children and teens understand consent, autonomy, and respectful limits.

Inside you’ll find:

• Clear explanations of what boundaries are

• Scripts for different developmental stages

• Guidance for teaching body autonomy and emotional limits

• Tools for responding to pushback

• Support for parents who were not taught healthy boundaries themselves

Written by Janice Selbie, MPCC, this guide helps families build clarity, confidence, and emotional safety.

Digital PDF. Immediate download after purchase.

How to Talk to Your Kid About Death is a trauma-informed, age-appropriate guide for helping children and teens understand death with honesty, emotional safety, and clarity.

This secular resource supports caregivers in having one of the most difficult conversations in a grounded, compassionate way, without relying on fear-based or overly abstract explanations.

Inside you’ll find:

• Developmentally appropriate guidance for preschoolers, children, tweens, and teens

• Simple, honest scripts for answering hard questions

• Support for talking about violent death and suicide in age-appropriate ways

• Insight into how children understand death at different stages

• Tools for supporting grief, emotional regulation, and ongoing conversations

• Guidance for avoiding both spiritual bypassing and emotional avoidance

This guide helps you stay present, truthful, and connected, even when the topic feels uncomfortable.

If your child struggles with worry, panic, or big feelings, this guide helps you respond with confidence rather than reassurance that accidentally makes anxiety worse.

This trauma-informed, age-appropriate guide supports parents in talking with children about anxiety without fear, shame, or minimizing their experience.

Designed especially for families raising kids outside of religion or after deconstruction.

Includes:

• Clear explanations of anxiety for kids and teens

• Age-appropriate language and example scripts

• Guidance for parents raised with fear-based messaging

• Practical reassurance that supports emotional regulation

Digital PDF. Immediate download after purchase.

Ready to untangle old beliefs and rebuild a life that fits you?

The ULTIMATE Deconstruction Guide & Workbook is your compassionate, step-by-step companion through the messy, beautiful work of questioning faith, healing from harmful doctrines, and discovering who you are beyond religion. 

Created by Master Practitioner Clinical Counsellor and religious trauma specialist Janice Selbie, this workbook brings together powerful exercises, grounded psychology, and practical tools to help you release fear, reclaim your voice, and grow into your truest self.

Whether you're just beginning to question or are already deep in the wilderness of deconstruction, you will find clear guidance, encouragement, and a path forward you can trust. You don't need to navigate this alone. 

Open these pages and take your next step toward clarity, freedom, and a life built on your own values.

Your healing starts here.